We all know the importance of our mother. You do not need a separate day to express your gratitude for what all she has done to reach the stage that you are currently now. You do not need a separate day to celebrate your father's day either.
I find weird when you have people reminding you of the day. Just goes to show how freaking pretentious they are when they say, "did you wish you mother today"? "Oh, it's a mother's day ?!" Thanks for letting me know, I am gonna wish her right now. You cannot fool yourself this badly and miserably. Have the balls to say, I do not believe in mother's days and father's days.
If you wished her today for some unknown emotion which has suddenly made you ill, did you wish her on all the previous years ? You don't even stand a chance to argue. That's how devastating I am when I raise a point.
It can be a big occasion in the Western world, but you freaks who use left hand for lower tasks, know any other day than Valentines day? No, you don't. Then why show extra love and extra concern on to your mother on this day only ?
You feel that you have done a world of good by wishing her? No you din't. You think you have fulfilled your responsibility by asking her well being on this day just because you were reminded by some other nuthead like you ?
No matter whatever you do, you can NEVER even do half of what she has done with undying love and affection. She does not even know what a mother's day is and is not even bothered about your wishes.
The material things like cake, flowers, cards etc that you have couriered will just bring her a smile. You have mailed them and are being sweet because you felt you want to feel yourself good and gloat about it to your friends. You feel guilty of what you have done in your past that is why you would be extra sweet to her on this day. Shear show off !
Instead talk to her once a day. Do not express your frustration on her. Try to listen to whatever she talks. Every word that she utters is worth her weight in gold. The care and concern can never be matched by anyone. It is called selfless love.
Expressing your gratitude and showing the world your sweetness for one day is not enough. You've got to be doing for the remaining 364 days. Think of those days when you yelled at her for no reason. Or worse, yelled at her because you were pissed off with your boyfriend / girlfriend. Those thoughts should force you to drown down the kitchen sink. I should perhaps drown myself now.
She is such a wonderful human being on this planet and I am suppressing my tears while I am writing this line. Feel good when you are able to talk to her at will. Please do not hurt her anymore. For all the things she has done to you since your childhood, your mother - not your dog - needs your love and affection every passing day, not just one day.
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